Mom Shares Her Addiction and Recovery Story to Break Stigma
Courtney Moniz, also known as @TheCourtnologist on social media, has decided to open up and share her journey of addiction and recovery in an effort to reduce the stigma surrounding addiction. In a heartfelt video posted on her YouTube channel, Moniz spoke about her struggles and the importance of not judging addicts.
Moniz began by acknowledging that addiction is often seen as a choice by society, but she emphasized that it quickly turns into a trap. She shared that addicts are often judged harshly, but they are actually harder on themselves than anyone else. Through tears, she expressed her belief that sobriety cannot be forced upon someone through bullying or guilt.
The turning point for Moniz came when her 10-year-old daughter told her father’s friend that she believed her mother would die. This realization shook her to the core, leading her to make the decision to go into recovery. Moniz acknowledged the impact her addiction had on her daughter and expressed gratitude for her unwavering support. She also mentioned her dogs, who stood by her even through her darkest times.
Ending her video, Moniz shared that she had been an absent mother for a significant part of her daughter’s life. She refused to suffer in silence any longer and declared her readiness to embark on the journey of recovery.
In her TikTok videos, Moniz encouraged others to document their own recovery journeys. She reflected on her own experience, admitting that she had often sought instant gratification while using drugs. She emphasized the importance of taking personal responsibility for one’s recovery, as waiting for the universe to intervene is futile.
One of Moniz’s TikToks, which gained over 1 million views, depicted her declaring that she would rather die than endure the sickness of withdrawal while apologizing to her daughter. However, the video then showed her in the present day, alive, and sober with her daughter by her side, highlighting the transformation she had undergone.
Moniz’s openness about her addiction journey has resonated with many people. In the comment section of her videos, viewers shared their own experiences and offered support. The comments were filled with love and encouragement, demonstrating the power of solidarity among those who have overcome addiction.
Unfortunately, addiction carries a heavy stigma in society. The negative attitude towards people struggling with substance abuse often labels them as tweakers, junkies, or crackheads. Rather than viewing addiction as a health problem, society tends to treat it as immoral and criminal behavior. This stigma creates an additional obstacle for individuals seeking treatment and recovery.
According to the American Addiction Center, addiction is the most stigmatized health problem in the United States. In 2018, over 21 million Americans were diagnosed with substance abuse issues. However, only 10% of them pursued treatment at medical facilities, and a staggering 60% of those advised to seek treatment declined to do so. The shame associated with addiction and the societal judgment surrounding it often discourage individuals from seeking help.
This is why individuals like Moniz, who choose to share their stories and recover out loud, play a crucial role in combating the stigma around addiction. By showcasing the highs and lows of their journeys, they inspire hope in others who may be trapped in the darkness. Positive narratives surrounding addiction provide a glimmer of hope and encourage others to believe in their own ability to recover.
To all those who have conquered addiction, you are seen and celebrated. To those currently struggling, remember that recovery is possible. Help is available through numerous resources, such as SAMHSA’s website, local treatment facilities, support groups like Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous, and helplines like SAMHSA’s National Helpline (1-800-799-7233).
Addiction should be approached with empathy and understanding rather than judgment. By breaking the silence and stigma, we can create a more supportive environment that facilitates healing and recovery for those battling addiction.
