The Power of Connection: How Getting to Know Each Other Can Overcome Divisions
In a world where divisions and inequalities persist, it’s crucial for us to examine our failure to truly get to know one another. The story of Phil G. Busey Sr., chairman and CEO of DRG and The Busey Group of Cos., offers a powerful lesson on the transformative power of connection, empathy, and shared experiences.
Ten years ago, Busey’s life took an unexpected turn when he was diagnosed with Guillain Barré Syndrome (GBS), a rare autoimmune disorder that left him unable to walk unassisted. During this trying time, Busey, together with his wife Cathy and their daughter Emily, embarked on a journey of resilience and unyielding determination.
Amidst the challenges, Busey found solace in the kindness and support of others. Through his interactions with nurses, doctors, therapists, and caregivers, he discovered the unique stories that connect us all. It was through these shared experiences that Busey learned the importance of humility, vulnerability, and the beauty of embracing diversity.
Throughout his recovery, Busey not only regained his physical abilities but also emerged as a changed man. He realized that our differences fade when we listen, respect, and support one another. In the face of adversity, he discovered that it is not our limitations that define us, but rather our ability to overcome them with courage and grace.
Busey’s transformative journey also shed light on the pressing need to do more for the disabled community. He recognized the immense value of caregivers, often unsung heroes, and their stories shaped his understanding of humility, love, and kindness. Busey firmly believes that by focusing on what we can do, rather than what we cannot, and by extending support and empathy to one another, we can create a world where differences are overshadowed by our shared humanity.
Our current state of division and fear of one another stems from a lack of understanding and connection. Busey emphasizes the importance of knowing one another beyond surface-level interactions. He highlights how even politicians, who should work together in compromise, often fail to build genuine relationships with their colleagues.
In contrast, Busey stresses the power of shared stories, open advocacy, and giving back. He emphasizes that our commonalities far outweigh our differences. By embracing unity and kindness, we can bridge the divides that plague society today.
As Eleanor Roosevelt once said, Courage is doing the thing you think you cannot do. Busey draws strength from these words, knowing that he is not alone in his journey. He finds comfort in the presence of a higher power, as expressed in Joshua 1:9, Be strong and of good courage, for I am with you wherever you go.
Busey’s inspiring tale teaches us that when faced with adversity, we have a choice: to succumb or to persevere. It is through connections and a genuine desire to get to know one another that we can overcome divisions and build a more inclusive and compassionate world.
In these challenging times, Busey’s story serves as a reminder that we are stronger together. Each of us carries a unique story, a patchwork quilt that, when united, forms a beautiful narrative of shared humanity. Let us embrace the power of empathy, celebrate our similarities, and support one another with unwavering kindness.
